"You're Fat."

The first time anyone ever called me fat was in 2nd grade. I was 8 years old.

I started sucking in my stomach when I was 12. The binary that is "fat or skinny" is harmful. This space is dedicated to my experiences with that binary and how it's steeped in, yupp you guessed it, White supremacy.


The harm described below is associated with the following:

  • Fatphobia

  • Body Shaming

  • Anti-Blackness

  • Sizeism

  • Racism

Who's fat?

This is a picture I posted last year on LinkedIn. The post encouraged people not to talk about other people's bodies or compare them to others'. A handful of people called me fat in the comments.


The truth is society has taken the word fat and based it on a look rather than any qualifications to be met. Any rolls on your body? Fat. Loose skin anywhere? Fat. Bigger body? Fat. Only one type of body is seen as "the standard" and any body that deviates is fat. These harmful messages can lead to Eating Disorders, Body Dysmorphic Disorder and Substance Use Disorders. Body Dysmorphic Disorder has the highest lifetime suicide attempt rate (35.2%).


"Being fat is unhealthy."



This thinking stems from the frequent use of the Body Mass Index (BMI). The same system used by the military. Heather Irobunda, MD, FACOG (She/Her) and Sabrina Strings, Ph.D. (She/Her) speak frequently on how this system is outdated, rooted in White supremacy and not an indicator of health or wellness.


This video they created describing the history of the system and how it still causes harm til this day, not only promotes self-advocacy in all spaces but also solidifies the fact that.....

Fatphobia is Anti-Blackness.